5 Things I Learned as a Brothel Manager

Confessions of an Australian Escort

My time managing one of Sydney’s busiest brothels has taught me lessons that I’ll remember for the rest of my life.

My journey into the sex industry was a simple one – my cousin owned a brothel and needed a manager. As I was between jobs, he chose me and because I had nothing else going on, I thought ‘why not?’.

Here are some of the lessons I learned as a brothel manager in Sydney.

How to recognise a bullshitter: It doesn’t take long to learn how to see a bullshitter’s true colours when you work in the sex industry. The bullshitters, almost always young men, would come to the parlour and ‘forget their wallets’, and have a good leer at the girls before leaving to masturbate over their memories later on. Other bullshitter’s would come in the form of men trying to gain free access into the brothel or worse, try and score themselves a free booking with an escort.

Don’t mix business with pleasure: The golden rule of the industry is to not mix business with pleasure. Avoid the seduction of forming relationships with the girls you work with – easier said than done and don’t let the possibility of sex with a gorgeous woman impair your judgement.

Men with secrets will pay a lot of money: In my job, I’ve heard it all. I’ve met men who want women to urinate (golden showers) on them, men who want to be breast-fed by lactating women, men who want to be tied up and put in cages – the more embarrassing and socially awkward the fetish, the more we are likely to charge. You can be certain that a man who has an unconventional fetish will be more than willing to pay top dollar for the service itself, as well as the comfort in knowing he can return to a brothel he feels comfortable in.

How to assert your dominance: As a young woman, I quickly learnt that trying to assert dominance over men who made trouble in this business, was difficult. Although I didn’t have a huge physical presence to intimidate them with, I had to learn to assert my dominance and authority through my body language and tone of voice. Men needed to know that I was the one in charge. For example, when they sit, I would stand. I would always maintain strong eye contact and I would always talk louder than they would. The same also applied when working with difficult escorts…

Although I’m no longer a brothel manager, I will never forget the many lessons I learned during my time in the sex industry.

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By Mia

8 Nov, 2014

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